the truth is when you are under their control that is when the cluster b bullshittery hits the fan! While you are feeling safe, secure, loyal, content, like you met the one. Very soon a true cluster b is going to become bored with you.
do not look for a silver lining because the only silver lining is you got your ass handed to you and your learning the truth our parents told us monsters live in the dark under the bed no they actually were invited into our beds. Our homes, our churches, our employment, celebrityhood our politics.
they roped you in , secured you, and then the devaluation death spiral. You either leave because it got too bad, you got ghosted or discarded. And yes you most certainly can be discarded even in a marriage they are just too cowardly to leave or be honest.
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they build up a mirrored version often to suck you in but down the road the mask gets a crack and the house of card falls and you are left picking up the mess.
good intentions are paved to hell so the saying goes. They are in control or otherwise they woukdnt bother with you.
Oh hell to the no
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they do start off with smoke n mirrors , good intentions and allegedly ‘honesty’ but that is just grooming, love bombing, smoke n mirrors, false presentations. They do want love , they do have dreams, however
that is why they cheat, lie, steal, have porn addictions, substance abuse all under your nose(and then some).
under the hood lies a broken angry , bored , toxic person that will throw you and your relationship right under the bus.
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
according to dr ramani 1/6 are pwnpd. That is a pretty staggering thought. Imagine that number in the gay community where the cohort is around ten percent. Thats just heart breaking to know you are going to encounter one of these folks and its up to us to educate , teach prevention and awareness hoping we can bring enough light to this topic.
i really dont want to give these folks the attention they dont deserve , ild rather give my attention to the survivors. I think their is a huge failure in our society where we worship the kardashians but neglect those that cant even scrape up the money to get therapy for chronic abuse
absolutely not
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I can swear on a stack of bibles (yes, i once hired a private investigator) that if you get into their phones, their ipads, social networking/ profiles and dating sites, emails whatever …. you will uncover the pwnpd has a few hidden things they do not want you finding.
you are mostly blissful sailing along quite unaware of their hidden actions and behaviours. They will be doing little gas lighting spells, omissions or blame shifting if you start to smell something is off. We all have times when we saw a white lie or a red flag go fluttering by , it may not even register, it may just be a quick blip.
now to them they delusionally believe they are giving you steak but in time youll see its just a cold stale old hot dog. Its a nothing burger scam.
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